Just now my brother and father they disputed about that topic again.... really dont know and can't understand why he is still immature. why keep on forcing my parents to let him study oversea... since they cant afford? They talk about this topic always.. again and again. He blame daddy for not supporting him in education and because of he didn't did well in SPM and bla bla bla... but actually he really didnt did well in his education. He wants to go UK and argued with parents, he is thinking that people earn more and have better life if can go and earn in UK.... no matter how he wants to go....
Now, since they argued and parents cannot support he changed his mind and want to go German. Yes, it is cheaper... but my parents also cant afford. They argue again... he said... no matter how he doesnt want to earn only 1-2 thousand per month and he must go oversea. he asked my parents to sell their shop and pay his fee... but it's hard. My parents r running out of savings and $.... he insist wan to go.... and say he can wait n waste his time.. nvm. until they earn n have enough money for him.... how can he...?
I really sad when he says he will blame my parents if in the future his life is not good... if they didnt let him go oversea... How can he talk like that and do that to them because of his own honor..... why he always like that.... ask n request thing without considering our family problems ... daddy n mum edy tried their best to fulfill us n our requirements.... how sad...
why can't he earn and do it himself? he say it is impossible for him to earn till he can afford by himself.... thats mean daddy must give whatever he ask for and sell everything because to fulfill him?? He has to understand he is not the only child and the only people that my dad need to take care of.... I can see daddy is having hard time and trying his best.....
how I wish i can help.................
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2 comments:
Hmm, you can't blame ur bro for being immature actually, the thing that would cause him to react like this only for few reason. Most common reason of reacting like this, he must have heard from all his friend, that oversea life is enjoy ! No worries... Many girl to play... Always sober...
Second reason, maybe he is having a hard time with his current love relationship, where her gf might consider of his status already, money concern... (or her parent).
Third reason, it might cause it to happen, because most of his friend in UK or perhaps someone he love in oversea. That's why.
Fourth reason, most probably he heard from his friend, that working in UK will earn him lot's of money which is *6 but he didnt know the actual fact... his friend lie.
Working in UK or oversea as we are consider temporary workers, which wont give us high salary, second work hour maximum for a student will only have 8 hour for 1 week. Working there 1 hour = 7pound <-- life feed back from my friend. But eat and spending expenses is tremendously high.
Just assumption...okie?
BTW, actual study figure if you wanna know for study oversea is as below..
For UK - 1yrs = 150,000++
For German - 1yrs = 75,000++
For Australia - 1yrs = 100,000++
For studying abroad
1 exam paper fail = RM 15,000
Anyway, bout your bro situation, if he insisted of wanna study, i would only suggest, he do it locally for the foundation years. (Get straight A results in the foundation year, apply for scholarship to study abroad)
2nd option, ask him to go to government place call PTPTN (which is funded by government (Study LOAN), if u need address, ask me...
3rd option, persuade him....studying locally also de same strengh as studying abroad... i got friend study from UK come back start up job for RM1,800... and i got friend study locally, same start up job pay. There have been working in the industry for bout 3 years now... both earning bout RM3,800++ ... What's de reason of studying abroad?
Anyway, tell your parent don't be mad, tell them bout the PTPTN loan, which can loan up from government to support u and ur bro study... 4% interest only + it's bout 20yrs of returning (if im not mistaken) u can start paying back when u start to work.
Why i know all these? Because, last time i took de loan from PTPTN ! ^^ that's why...
I borrow 45,000 & i got my degree in computer science ! ^^ I go any company, i get the same salary as an oversea graduate ! Those boss is looking for quality, and not expensive type !
And that's de fact !
thx for ur.... gao gao punya comment, type so hard to give those info. but you know immature people wont understand and he wont even care about how much it cost. those money money stuff edy explained by parents. he sumore ask to pigi bank borrow or sell shop this n that , thats mean he wont care how hard to get the money and he must go.
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